Cruising..

HI! We all just got back from our yearly Cruise Vacation

& it was wonderful!!

 Our first day.. on our balcony..watching us sail from Boston!

Splash Park fun!!

Love her!!

BERMUDA!!

This was Grace the whole trip.. "Fist-Bump" Queen!! Here's one of her favorite crew memebers..

we also met another from India, who has a 5 year old daughter, Grace!! He was wonderful with

our Grace.. hope to see him next year!!

Great trip..if you've never been.. I highly recommend..

#Cruising!

Love,

pattie & gary, Grace & maxwell

"Never underestimate the power of a Girl!"

Grace's 1st day of school today.. Pre-K/K .. in a new program & a new school..

with new teachers & new kids..

She's my daughter.. She's a girl.. She's adaptable, she will be FINE!

(mama's mantra for the day!!)

This is her first school picture for the year!!

Grace will be attending a program that will give her more one on one services..

hopefully this will catch her up to her peers in a few years!  Everyone is telling us that we will

see huge growth.. I hope her nutrition is getting her to that point as well!

It's hard .. As much as I was excited to get her back into the #Routine & #BacktoSchool

it's been a rough morning.. & she's only been gone an hour!

I hope the teacher checks in with me later.. 

She had a tough time getting on the van, she was the only kid in there.. she's a child that thrives around other children.. I'm sure she's the farthest out, so she was the first to be picked up... right?

You'll do great, Grace!!

Mama & Dada just worry too much.. I think that's called "Helicopter Parents".. (LOL).. I'm sure our friends are getting a kick out of that.. yes, we are admitting to being helicopters!

The good news.. it's only 3 days..& then we are on our way to a beautiful cruise for a week!

Then we'll have the firsts start all over again on the 12th..

LOVE YOU BABY GIRL!!!!

Mama & Daddy (& Max!)

Happy 5th Birthday Baby Blueberries!!!

It's here.. the day has arrived.. Grace & Maxwell are FIVE!!! 

boy, that went fast, didn't it.. feels like just yesterday I was posting that they have arrived into the world.. 

now we are celebrating a five year milestone.

Yes, she's still on g-tube.. (but it's getting her stronger & good nutrition) plus we are playing

with a real food blends.. another company who offers an organic blended food diet vs. formula..

hoping to start that in the next few months on a regular basis.  She's eating & swallowing though.. & even that she's doing so much better than when she started.

Yes, she's not walking independently yet..but she's soo close!!

Walking between Mom & Dad holding our hands..she does fantastic!

While holding both her hands, walking with just one person..she does great.

Standing against the couch independently.. & laying on her belly lifting up her head.. she 

is truly getting so strong!  

We have to remember where she started, as much as sometimes we don't want to..

it's her story.. She has been diagnosed with Celebral Palsy..but even with a 'diagnosis' (sometimes for treatment necessities) she's doing GREAT.

Today is about GRACE & MAXWELL..

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my little BLUEBERRIES!!!

We LOVE you!!

love,

mom, dad & max

In the life of Grace..

It's happening.. we are getting close to the date where it all began..

it brings me into some PTSD, but in trying to stay positive it brings me to a place where

I can honestly see Grace is getting older & bigger..and she's soo smart.. so receptive.

She understands what is said to her.. cognition is spot on!

  Yup! Grace will be sporting her new glasses in about 4 weeks.. we did this one time before remember? and she wasn't very good about keeping them on?  Well, her eyesight has improved quite a bit since then..but she's got some nearsided-ness (both mom & dad are nearsided) happening..so we're hoping the glasses will help.  Stop taking Mama's off & wear your on!!

Is this a Milestone or what????  I mean look at this big girl.. with the right positioning..she stands on her own..

sure, she's leaning on the couch a little..but just the fact that she's up & standing there..long 

enough for me to take the picture..  Gosh, I love her!!

And from a friend who recently watched her for a few hours.. 

I love this picture!! Sitting up straight..(which she has been doing for awhile), her infectious smile

and overall happiness!!   

Grace has been 'sharing' quiet a bit lately.. your turn, then mine! her & i play her favorite..drums alot!

She loves to take a book & turn the pages..

She's walking everywhere.. (we rarely carry her).. if she motions to get down, we don't stop

her.. we simply let her slide down & then hold her by hands only & she walks to where she

wants to go.. 

She's back into Music Together (can't wait to take her on Friday).. it's going to be so different this

time around.. we went a few years ago when she wasn't sitting up on her own.. Our babysitter took her last week & they had a great time.. she's even scooting for her own toys..

She's better at independent play.. I can go to the bathroom & leave her with some toys... (wink!)

And most recently we have started pretend play..

she's always been good with pretending with a baby doll..but we're now pretending with 'soup' & a bowl..

or a coffee mug & 'coffee'... 

I can't belive in less than a month she will be FIVE!!! Can you believe it...

In a week or so, I will be have written this blog for FIVE years.. how crazy is that!!

I love you Grace..and I'm soo proud of you!!!!

love,

mama, dada & Maxwell

Paddling upstream..

School's coming to an end.. which for me just brings a little extra anxiety!

Grace is a routine girl.. who am I kidding? SO AM I !!

For the summer, she'll be attending a summer school program - tuesdays through thursdays 9-12..

then what?  Let's see, I've signed her up for Music Together (we've done it when she was smaller, so I'm sure she'll love it now) on Friday mornings.. and then our wonderful PCA will make sure she 

gets out to the zoo & parks, and a whole lotta fun.

From Sept 2015 - Preschool Full Day

 Spring 2016

Look how much she's grown & changed.. I'm sure someone who hasn't seen her in awhile will see a huge difference.. I see little differences here & there.. (if i could get the picture to be sidebyside I'm sure it would be easier to see)..

The anxiety of where Grace will attend school in the fall is happening right now.

It's already starting.. the worry, the fear of doing the right thing for her..

Currently, she is in the public school system with a WONDERFUL (can't say enough good things) of her "paraprofessional" who is with her ALL day.. She has taught Grace so much, & works wonderfully with her.

The thought of having the school use her as Grace's 1 on 1 for next year, is just a thought in our mind..as we asked the school & the intention of having Grace repeat preschool where she is & the answer was a "NO."

Why not? They make us feel like they don't want to educate her there.. :(

So the "team" decides that Grace would thrive through a collaborative education system, with the number of kids in the class alot smaller & more direct one on one support.. OK, I'll give them that.. she does need to be 'educated'.. & might do better with alot more 1:1 attention

however, Grace is the queen of her current school.. from 1st graders to 5th graders.. everyone knows her,

she is Ms. Social Bee & everyone as she is, is motivated by her & her by them..

what happens with that? This team knows the expectations of mom & dad when it comes to 

feeding, swallowing, PT, OT, & Speech.. do we start all over again??

I know I worry too much..but honestly, as I repeat all the time..she is FOUR.. 

FIVE even..   what's in the best interest for Grace??

As a mom of an adult down syndrome woman recently said to me, 

"Pattie its just the beginning of the on-going battle you will have with the school & honestly, the social part is as much as a big deal as the education part."

In cases like this, I just wish it was easier.. an "on going battle" with the school system..

really?? As if LIFE wasn't hard enough..

Thanks for keeping up!

pattie & gary, Grace & maxwell

With all the rain, there is a rainbow!

So much happening lately.. I feel I haven't had time to even blog the good things happening..

Grace did have a revision surgery on her gtube on April 21st,

not 'good' to go under & be in surgery..but good as in hopefully it has helped with leakage.

Today is the first day in 2 weeks that she didn't LEAK anything..not water at school or 

her formula.. So.. yea, things are healing nicely!!

The other good thing that has come out of this surgery, is from her awesome surgeon..

we're lucky to have her.  She recommended a company who blends real food up for tubies..

it helps with digestion & even growth etc.  Food like:  chicken, brown rice & carrots; hemp, kale & quinoa

& salmon, oats & squash.  So we are trying the variety pack..

This will be tomorrow's dinner.. 

So it comes in this pack like this.. & I just use a syringe bring up 60ml (2 oz) & make it a little thinner with 1 oz water..& then we 'bolus' feed into her gtube via the syringe.

We then follow up with the rest of her 'dinner' via her pediasure..

we started using this last Thursday & suffice to say, she has been pooping regularly!!!! (with no miralax)

And I even think she's been a little more hungrier..  we'll look into a prescription & see if our 

insurance will pay for it in a month or so.. if it continues to go well!

It's very exciting!

  Our little friend, absolutely LOVES ice cream..here she is eating my favorite, Black Raspberry.  Her friend, Abby was over a few weeks ago & they had cones in the back seat.. vanilla from McDonald's..

And then in bigger news.. NO MORE CRIB!!!

Grace has been sleeping in this new big girl crib for a few weeks now.. & at first it stunk, I'm not going to lie..she had a hard time going down.. but now she's doing great.. & sleeps all night!

She likes to be warm in a very cozy blanket. 

And for how long she is.. she still curls way up in it..

In school, she's doing fantastic.. the teacher's aide is wonderful with her..

She is learning how to eat off a spoon & closing her lips around it.. 

Today, her outside speech therapist thought she said, "Oh NO" clear as day twice..

We are signing her up for soccer , maybe swim..

she walks fantastically by holding each of our hands on both sides.. walker at school AlL the time..

We are so proud of how far Grace has come!

Thanks for keeping up!

To our friends in Florida - LOVE & MISS YOU BOTH!!!

love,

pattie & gary, Grace & maxwell :)

Saying good-bye

It's a sad day today... & tomorrow too.. I'm sad for Grace

& i'm sad for Vevoo.. (grandfather in Portuguese)

Vevoo has been sick & has finally gone to his home in heaven..

the good news is he's with Maxwell.. I hope they know how much they are loved.

Grace had her own unique relationship with Vevoo..and was even able to visit with

him last week.. & before that at the nursing home.. 

We would visit Vevo & Vavo weekly, she would sit on his lap & bite his oxygen wire.. (lol)

he would nod his head "no-no" & she would repeat it.. shaking her own head. "no-no"

He was so proud of her!!

When he heard he was dying, I was there.. & he cried.. saying he was going to miss his baby! (Grace)..

along with his other grandchildren who he loved dearly!

My dad was alot of things in life.. some good, bad & even ugly sometimes..

but he did what he could when he could..

in his later years, he was kind, he was loving & emotional!

He was afraid of dying.  He didn't want to leave my mother or his babies!!

Keep my families in your good thoughts & prayers as we say good bye to Vevoo!

 Our little musician!

Love,

pattie & gary, Grace & Maxwell